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Dec. 4th, 2013 | 02:33 am

It's a long ride home, via another gig in Utah. Though, from Dubai to Salt Lake City is not that big a stretch: multiple wives, funny underwear, difficult to buy alcohol. Basically, they're the same place with a 90-degree weather difference.

I'm waiting on the final steps for the overseas job--my boss has made the offer, I've provisionally accepted, we're waiting for his client's contract to finalize. Fingers crossed, but if it comes through, I'll be trading a 30% pay cut for guaranteed work for 6 months, apartment provided, and the income is tax-free in the country of work. My hope is that the pay cut will encourage me to sell more writing. And the schedule, while still not bankers' hours, would provide a lot more stability for a writing routine.


Bangkok was interesting. I'm not sure if I don't love Thailand, or if I don't love anywhere where I'm not traveling alone, or if I don't love anywhere where I'm traveling with my mother. I'm remembering, though, that everyone I know who is all "I LOOOOOOOVE Thailand!" is generally a hippy-dippy yoga-doing beach-loving rave-dancing pot-smoker, all of whom used the word "spiritual" to describe their Thailand experience. I love my yoga, but really, I just want to eat interesting food and ride motorcycle taxis. The last two days, the political protests exploded, and had I not been vacationing with my mother, that's where I would have been (and probably stayed longer). We walked through the demonstration, not quite knowing what it was, the day before it got violent. Most of traveling with my mother was awesome, and I'm at the age where being able to get her a ticket to a neat place and spend time with her feels like Badge of Adulthood. Next time I'll remember that my half-day writing in the coffeeshop while my mother explores on her own should be Day Five instead of Day Seven, and we'll all be happier.


You ever have a hat you really liked, even though it wasn't the most flattering hat ever, and it kind of lost its shape in the rain, and the color made you look washed-out in some lights, and some of your friends didn't really think it was a great hat but didn't want to be bitches in case you were really happy with it? And you didn't realize any of those things, until you lost it on a bus and were sad for awhile, but then you bought a new hat, and the new hat turned out to be so much more flattering and did things like express its hat-feelings in words and tell you how much it liked being your hat and how much it valued your head, and ask you what it could, as a hat, do for you, and even guess at things you liked, hat-wise, and give them to you with caring and thoughtfulness? So much so, in fact, that you started to feel like, shit, really? I spent two years wearing that awful hat? Well, at least it helped me recognize the much better quality range available in hats.

I have a new hat.


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Holly

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from: minnesattva
date: Dec. 4th, 2013 05:34 pm (UTC)
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New hats are awesome.

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whipchick

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from: whipchick
date: Dec. 5th, 2013 06:16 pm (UTC)
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OMG yes. This one gets better by the day :)

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unmowngrass

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from: unmowngrass
date: Dec. 4th, 2013 06:33 pm (UTC)
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<3

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whipchick

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from: whipchick
date: Dec. 5th, 2013 06:17 pm (UTC)
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You, too :)

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drwex

Hats and women are a conspiracy

from: drwex
date: Dec. 5th, 2013 05:29 pm (UTC)
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I say this because it is my experience that any woman can walk up to any man, take any hat off that man's head and put it on her own. As a result she will look better in the hat than he does and the hat will look more suitable to her than to him. A conspiracy, I'm telling you.

What will you do/with your domicile in the US when you take this job?

That's quite a pay cut, but if it's what you want I'll cross my fingers for you. Writing with crossed fingers is difficult, though.

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whipchick

Re: Hats and women are a conspiracy

from: whipchick
date: Dec. 5th, 2013 06:24 pm (UTC)
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I have noticed that law of hats :)

I'm so lucky - I still co-own and share a house with my ex-husband (and I have to say, every time I hear another expensive/bitter/horrible divorce story I am grateful anew that mine was cheap and pleasant and we're still best friends). He'll likely stay in the house as he is now. I had roommates until about four months ago, so if I have to I'll put a new one in, but I think it will be handle-able with just the ex.

The money's such a funny computation - I counted up last year's hat pass and fees for the same period of time, which is how I got the number...but, my work partner and I had already decided that we didn't want to work two of the big festivals we did last year, and were also looking at spending the summer in Europe instead of Canada, which is a bigger risk with more up-front costs. The gig I'm hoping to take pays less than I made last year, but I will potentially get some additional performance gigs, and it wouldn't take many of them to make up the 30%.

However, for years I've told people that if they want to make a creative living they should quit their day job, because needing to eat makes you work harder to make your art make money. It's just that my day job is also an art job :) So I'm hoping six months is long enough to go up a gear in writing, while not completely screwing me financially if it doesn't pan out.

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drwex

Re: Hats and women are a conspiracy

from: drwex
date: Dec. 5th, 2013 07:17 pm (UTC)
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Sounds like an interesting plan... and so very different from the planny plans you were planning a few months ago.

I believe it's credited to Dwight Eisenhower to have said that "In wartime, plans are useless but planning is essential."

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